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Why Hire a Doula?

"No matter how many children a mother has had or how many family members or friends will be present at the birth of her child it is still vital to also include a doula as a member of the team."  

 Some reasons and benefits to

hiring a Doula... 

 

Wanting a better birth experience than was experienced during previous birth/s, wanting an active role in her birth experience, fear of forgetting want she feels she needs to remember during birth, lower epidural rates, lower c-section rates, higher incidence of positive birth experience, and better mother and baby bonding. 

 

I have my husband and family for support do I still need a Doula?

 

 While a mother’s partner, family or friends can provide emotional support it is often difficult for them to provide the kind of loving professional support that a doula offers. A doula can offer advice on positions and comfort measures that might otherwise be forgotten from a childbirth class.   Because of a doula’s experience and training she should be able to know the mother’s desires usually without the mother even verbally saying what she needs.  A mother can usually communicate her thoughts and feelings more freely with the compassionate ear of her doula who she doesn’t feel obligated to making comfortable or worry how she may be interpreted.  The doula should also always be aware of those present who the mother has chosen to be a part of her birth experience and offer advice that will aid in their participation as well. Once labor becomes intense it is a comfort to have a doula that is calm and confident that can help those surrounding the mother remain strong and calm as well. A doula in no way replaces the role of the mother’s partner or her loved ones at the birth.  The doula only enhances the experience by providing support to the mother as well as to her support team.

 

A Doula can inform a mother about the choices that are available to her. 

 

Once the mother has made her choices it is the doula’s responsibility to support her in those decisions and help facilitate the birth the mother wants to the best of her ability.  A doula desires the mother have the birth she wants and does not push her own views on the mother.  Continuous physical and emotional support is provided by the doula to the laboring mother, while medical staff and the doctor/midwife are in and out of the mother’s room the doula will stay constant with the mother.  Because the mother usually has an established relationship with her doula the mother responds well to her direction and encouragement.

 

A Doula cannot provide health-care professional services. 

 

She doesn’t do clinical procedures such as vaginal exams or checking the mother blood pressure.  While a doula doesn’t provide any medical procedures she does offer a wealth of information concerning the practices and procedures of health care professionals and can help guide the mother in understanding those practices.  It is the doula’s goal to help take the confusion out of the process of pregnancy, labor and delivery so that a mother can feel confident before, during and after her delivery.